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When Pride Becomes Dangerous
From celebration to calculation: the new cost of being seen
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Gino Cosme
The Unseen Wounds: The Lasting Impact of Microaggressions
How daily slights erode self-worth—and why your pain deserves to be witnessed
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Gino Cosme
The Silent Struggle: Growing Up Gay in a World That Didn't Acknowledge You
When invisibility becomes your first language, finding yourself takes a lifetime
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Gino Cosme
How Pride Went Global—and Got Hijacked by Corporations
From Johannesburg to Berlin, Pride has gone global—but at what cost? This essay traces its transformation and the queer resistance reclaiming it.
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Gino Cosme

May 2025

The Myth of the Chosen Family: When Queer Communities Fall Short
Discover why LGBTQ chosen family rejection cuts deeper than expected—and what to do when queer communities replicate the pain of your past.
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Gino Cosme
The Double Closet: Hiding Mental Health Struggles in the LGBTQ+ Community
What happens when you have to perform pride while falling apart
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Gino Cosme
The Loneliness That Follows Pride: When Visibility Isn't Enough
Why the aftermath of Pride Month reveals deeper truths about connection and community
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Gino Cosme
Stop Making Us Noble Victims: The Media's Problem With 'Palatable' Queerness
Media celebrates 'increased LGBTQ+ visibility' while serving up sanitized versions of queer life. But what's the psychological cost of being seen…
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Gino Cosme
We Grew Up with No Mirrors: The Psychological Toll of Growing Up Without Queer Role Models
Reflections on Invisibility, Mimicry, and Learning Who We Are in Adulthood — Too Late and All at Once
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Gino Cosme
The Quiet Violence of Being "Too Sensitive" as a Gay Man
What happens when you grow up being punished for the very traits that later become your emotional intelligence?
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Gino Cosme
After The Closet: Grieving the Family You Thought You Had
The Silent Estrangement No One Prepares Us For When Coming Out Isn't Rejection—But Something More Painful
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Gino Cosme
Gay Men and Sensitivity: How to Transform Queer Hypervigilance into Emotional Strength
Explore How Gay Men Transform Survival-Based Sensitivity Into Emotional Strength
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Gino Cosme
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