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Rethinking Self-Care

Self-care is a term that's on everyone's lips, but the way we often interpret it could lead us astray. Let’s dive into what real self-care looks like and why it’s important to get it right.

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Gino Cosme
Jul 18, 2024
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The Commercialization of Self-Care

When you hear "self-care," what comes to mind?

A luxurious spa day, a relaxing vacation, or buying something nice on Amazon?

It's easy to link self-care with these indulgent activities. That's what marketers and the media have sold us.

Self-care should focus on nurturing physical and emotional well-being.

Redefining Self-Care

For me, self-care is not about luxurious experiences or expensive products.

Proper self-care is first about meeting our most basic needs - it’s like taking care of yourself.

Think about the times you've cared for someone else, such as a child or an elderly relative. Your focus was on their well-being, security, and physical comfort.

The same principles should apply to our own care.

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs: A Guide to Genuine Self-Care

To better understand self-care, let’s look at Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs.

Maslow’s pyramid begins with basic needs at the bottom. It rises to self-actualization at the top.

  1. Physiological needs: Bas…

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